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messengerFacebook and cause more problems in couples a lover of flesh and blood ..
02/10/2008 | By: oscartruma
marriages, engagements and formal relationships of couples and not destroyed by wicked witches 90-60-90 flesh and blood that stand between the loving innocent lovebirds. Or disarmed by the intervention of an adonis stallion, or a rich, unscrupulous fellow college or work of our beloved, that means seduction ploys fine rapa us women we love. NoThat no longer happens.
now the main source and conflicts, grabs, suffering and separation for many people living in the ethereal virtual world. Moreover, one can find evidence, traces of these powerful and evil rivals: the keyboard, screen, mouse, speakers or Web cam. And the alerts are activated by simply listening to the tune of initiation of Windows.
Facebook, MySpace and other social networking Messenger or Hotmail emails simple daily spits Gmail, yahoo etc. are guilty of more breaks of couples today than they could make half a million men and women"Tangible, real" intelligent and divine in heat, ready to please any one Saturday night in bars in Bogota. Well, not that they are "guilty" literally, but for many people who are not sure of yourself and trust your partner, if you can become a torture.
Television is being abandoned en masse ... dramatic (read unfortunately has never been a habit majority thus has not suffered much neglect) People are imprisoned, enslaved to the need get a lot of money to continue the train of expensive purchases of appliances, clothing and "procarb, finally found, and not always good things.
If a person obsessively spy grant him the gift of reading our thoughts, (I bet you would die to have that gift, and often think you have one) will terrify to see how many times we think , remember, and even wish we miss others. And then very disappointed by what clairvoyance abandonaríaa one and go with another which in turn would also do the same, and their hunger for control everything and know everything will preclude a calm , healthy and harmonious relationship with any human being in this world, including neighboring worlds as well.
¡ people alone! Please métanse that in mind.
Yes, even you, who has 398 friends on facebook and added 86 people in his messenger ... is alone. We live in a selfish society, suspicious and paranoid. The treatment and personal contact, live among the people has been restricted to small towns and rural areas. It is safer to talk on messenger with four friends (you) who are: in Toronto, London, Buenos Aires, and San Francisco, who go out only ten at night to see what happens. Probably and hopefully nothing happens or maybe yes, depending on the area, you may get a bit romantic or friendly docked. Or be fined por we do, and we are quiet for a moment, and emotion, the delicious uncertainty, the sense of wonder back to playing our door. But it is an illusion. That feeling lasts how long it takes your partner to realize that we are able to enjoy another person who is not her, and that is something that can not stand, although that nasty witch or abusive invading prince easily find 13,800 miles, and a couple of seas and mountains in between.
And whoever thought that the "not real" no problem is wrong. The level of anger, of irrationality, of destabilization that can find a bloodhound bloodhound or a friendship or romancevirtual partner, is about the same or worse than what it would feel awful if you find one in bed with a lover on all fours, and eighty-five percent of the reproductive system introduced in the humanity of a scented witch (prettier than her, more educated and reweigh with silver) and tangible flesh and blood. Or vice versa.
technology going too fast, too much for what is our ability to eliminate defects, and negative cultural conditioning. And the creation of spaces of respect, knowledge of what has to be a relationship tailored to the times of obsession with work and profound solitude in which we live, it is stilltá in its infancy.
Yes, men do not go well, okay. But spend much of their free time, read your favorite articles via Internet, to comment on their favorite sites or blogs, watch videos on you tube, talk to friends, former girlfriends, ex lovers, or people just found on the network and share an affinity of thought or taste or just make them feel good.
And they in turn have massively entered the working world, are autonomous, they earn their own money, have their own group of friends and friends outside of the commons, and in his moments of solitude, too n spoken with her ex-boyfriends, ex-lovers, colleagues or simply indicateslimits, wear it wants. Not because of danger or people do not know at first, the wheel of life has stopped turning.
I know people who have love for the internet and has gone wrong, as in life "normal" to be dating a woman 5 years and go live with her despuésa not guarantee any success . But I also know people who against all odds, have met wonderful people in the network, have become part of your life, have helped them grow and vice versa. And even some have fallen in love, and others have been able to find what you never found in the bar of the "bars to tie" The platform has changed, but human beings with their m & amp; eacute; rites and weaknesses remain the same.
The problem we have already suffered before the emergence of social networks and the Internet boom. Which already reaching into the purse or wallet to your partner, we spied the agendas, calls, forbade him to speak with former partners, the wait was going to college every day or work to control the he smelled the shirts for her boyfriend, called him at times implausible absurd pretexts and false innocence, already suspicious before, continue to do so now, will likely suffer and seeing enemies everywhere , and now certainly much more. Sends only changes theis the fear, insecurity container
And no heaven, no technology or deserted island where they are not exempt from the dangers of being abandoned by their object of desire, because there's always the risk that can get someone, prettier, or smarter, or more good and vice versa. But it is useless, its terrible fear over time to make it part of unspeakable suffering, all I get is blasé people next to it, however much they love it, because you can live with many shortcomings in the person you love, but there is something you can not live, and is always being on the razor's edge, under suspicion, watched with lupa, under personal marking. Distrust is capable of killing even the most beautiful and tender love story.
So keep you much care, whether from the outset that your partner will mount a show by something he saw and did not like, or who spied or sensed their personal emails or private pages if you from the first time that happens compromises, yield not to see her suffer, removed from people who want life, special people for you, friends, life in the story of his life or just someone who has known and he you really like or appreciate, if you delete it from your life for your partner's fears remain intact and not suffer, will have bread today and hungeror you live hammering his dazed partner, not worth or worthy of the love she gives. If so, go with more reason. A person who lives complaining and mistrust of each other but insists on staying with her poor prognosis. Perhaps what you need so sick to keep alive their victimhood and is perfectly capable of ruining his own life and the way you ruined.
If, Facebook and other social networks destroy more relationships that an invasion mixed models in heat and ready to give free and unconditional love. But what people know is that these unions were supported by fear, and fear is afragile material.
sure you have a similar experience: he was not ashamed, ampárese in the anonymity of your nick (if total many people do it to insult, you do as a catharsis, to a good thing) and compares rtanosla. But beware, your partner can spy the comments you made, you can measure its "hidden agenda" to calculate its irony, weighing their level of commitment. Celarlo can celarla or even me, and your relationship may end with a death certificate issued by Hotmail, Messenger, Facebook or what is more worrying still for the blogging platform of "El Tiempo"
And if it has not happened, do not worry that it will come.
oscartruma72@hotmail.com
Source: http://www.eltiempo.com/participacion/blogs/default/un_articulo.php?id_blog=4303823&id_recurso=450012922&random=6217
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